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Successful
Communication Between Home and College
- E-mail is probably
the best way to stay in touch. Your
kids grew up with e-mail as their
primary means of communication,
and they’ll feel more comfortable
with it. It also saves on long-distance
bills!
- If the telephone
works better for your family, plan
to call your child on a regular
basis … or they’ll call
you on an irregular basis!
- Offer to visit
campus occasionally, but tell your
son or daughter well in advance
that you would like to come; don’t
just drop in.
- Make your visits
short when you do visit (unless,
of course, they ask you to stay).
Offer to take a group of their friends
out for dinner, but then allow them
to attend whatever social function
is occurring later in the evening.
Plan on a late brunch the next morning.
- Expect that your
child will need to do multiple loads
of laundry when he or she comes
home for a visit.
- Remember that
when they come home, they have been
on a different sleeping schedule.
Be prepared for snack raids to your
kitchen at 3 a.m. College students
home on vacation often sleep even
later in the morning than they did
as high school students.
Simple Formula for
Academic Success
Both students and
parents often worry about the transition
to college-level academics. But
really there are just three simple
steps that will help your child to
achieve academic success:
- Go to class.
- Do all of the homework and reading.
- Get extra help if you’re
having trouble understanding the
subject matter. Don’t wait
until midterms or the final exam
to try to get help.
College is a time
for exploration and self-discovery.
Some students experience a dip in
their performance from high school
to first year of college as they adjust
to this new learning environment.
Most students will work out what they
need to do to survive and succeed.
But, it is the student who needs to
realize this. Parents, faculty advisors
and administrators cannot do this
for the student, although each will
offer guidance and support. Take comfort
in the knowledge that most students
figure out the system and its expectations,
and rebound to higher levels of performance.
Keeping First-Year
Students on Course
Ample literature
stresses the importance of strong
student/faculty/advisor connections
as crucial to ensuring success in
college. You can support the college’s
efforts to create these connections
by asking your child about his or
her advisors and encouraging him or
her to take advantage of them.
There are numerous
adults on campus who are willing and
able to provide mentoring and support.
Students generally need to make a
first step and the rest will follow
easily. Sometimes this is a daunting
task for the first-year student, but
rest assured that if your child makes
the initial contact, the adult will
work at sustaining the relationship.
Developing this
kind of mentoring relationship happens
quite easily on the Champlain campus,
and is one of the advantages of Champlain’s
small size. Small classes and close
student/faculty relationships mean
that professors really get to know
their students, which creates an open,
accessible learning environment. This
depth of knowledge also makes it easy
for a professor to write compelling
letters of recommendation for graduate
school or employment.
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